Going Through Grief with the Family of God (Sittser)

One of my favorite resources on grief and sorrow in the Christian life is "A Grace Disguised" by Jerry Sittser. Jerry lost his daughter, wife, and mother in a single car crash. The story is beyond sad. But the story has Christian hope in it as well. The book isn't a theology of suffering. It's… Continue reading Going Through Grief with the Family of God (Sittser)

When Grief Goes Too Far (Flavel)

After Saul's kingship seriously goes down the drain, the Lord rejects Saul as king over Israel. You can read the story in 1 Samuel 15. At the end of this story, Samuel grieves over Saul. In fact, Samuel's grief or mourning is noted twice - once in 1 Samuel 15:35 and also 1 Samuel 16:1.… Continue reading When Grief Goes Too Far (Flavel)

The Good In Sorrow (!?!)

I certainly don't know all the thoughts and feelings of other Christians as they've suffered hard through trial and affliction. But I do know that some Christians have remarked that God blessed them greatly during their suffering. Sometimes when we suffer we experience the comforting presence of God in an unexplicable way. Other times God's… Continue reading The Good In Sorrow (!?!)

Regarding the Death of Calvin’s Wife

 John Calvin's wife Idellette died in 1549 from a lengthy illness.  They had been married for 9 years when she died; Calvin was 40 years old at the time.  Not long after Idellette died Calvin wrote a letter to Farel telling him of the news.  Here are some excerpts of that letter: Intelligence of my… Continue reading Regarding the Death of Calvin’s Wife

Comfort for a Grieving Widow (Chrysostom)

Chrysostom (d. 407 AD) A young Christian woman was grieving the death of her husband. It was a hard and heavy blow. John Chrysostom knew of her grief and wrote her a kind letter to direct her gaze heavenward, to the Lord. In this part of the letter (dated around 380 AD), Chrysostom echoes biblical… Continue reading Comfort for a Grieving Widow (Chrysostom)